SEL Summer Camp Week 4: Garden of Weedy Thoughts: Helping Middle Schoolers Bust Cognitive Distortions & Calm Anxiety
The Middle School Mary Poppins PodcastShow Notes
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———————————-🌱 Garden of Weedy Thoughts: Helping Middle Schoolers Bust Cognitive Distortions & Calm AnxietyWhy does your middle schooler suddenly believe everyone is judging them?
Why can one awkward interaction at school turn into “Nobody likes me!”? And why do worries seem to grow so quickly during adolescence?Welcome to the strange garden of the middle school brain.
In this week’s episode of Middle School Mary Poppins, Suzanne M. Swain, EdS, LMSW, is joined by Jessica Ragnio, MSW, LICSW, Clinical Director at Mightier, to explore one of the most important mental health concepts parents can teach their children: cognitive distortions—the thinking traps that make anxiety feel real, even when our thoughts aren’t telling us the whole story.Using a whimsical garden metaphor, Suzanne explains why middle school isn’t just a grade level—it’s a culture.
Together, Suzanne and Jessica discuss how anxiety quietly plants “sticky weeds” in our minds, why belonging becomes so important during adolescence, and how parents can help children recognize these unhelpful thought patterns before they take over the entire garden.
🌸 In This Episode You’ll Lear 🌷 What cognitive distortions are—and why they feel so believable. 🌼 Why anxiety often shows up as stomach aches, headaches, perfectionism, school avoidance, or irritability. 🌺 How girls and boys may experience anxiety differently during adolescence. 🌻 Why friendships, cliques, and social belonging feel so overwhelming in middle school.🪻 How thoughts, emotions, and behaviors work together to shape our experiences. 🌹 Practical ways to help children challenge anxious thinking with curiosity instead of fear.🌿
Why Stop. Regulate. Listen. is a brain-based strategy that helps kids regulate emotions before solving problems.
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