Episode 395: 3 Ways Your Primary Triangle Influences Your Functioning
The Non-Anxious Leader PodcastShow Notes
The primary triangle between yourself and your parents/caregivers is the most influential triangle in your life. Here's what that looks like and why. Show Notes: Triangles — The Bowen Center for the Study of the Family Family Projection Process — The Bowen Center for the Study of the Family What IS a Failure of Nerve? - The Non-Anxious Leader The Differentiated Leader - The Non-Anxious Leader Check out The Non-Anxious Life, a FREE AI Family Systems Coach. Become a Patron for as little as $5/month. Subscribe to my weekly Two for Tuesday email newsletter.
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