Show Notes
hot take: sibling order can determine your personailty as much as a horoscope can! the hot pursuit girls share their differing experiences growing up: jen as an only child, emily as an older sister to a younger sister, & madelyn as a younger sister to an older brother! between the 3 of us, we cover all the bases!
0:00 our sibling orders
2:12 older sis: being the good example
7:47 older sis: absorbing as the unsung heroes
13:33 older sis: being highly considerate of others
15:09 older sis: paving the way
17:53 older sis: nurturing and protective instincts
22:10 only child: duty and responsibility
29:54 only child: closeness with parents
33:52 only child: hyperindependence
35:55 only child: chosen sisters
38:14 only child: pleasing vs. loving
42:49 younger sis: growing up with brothers
44:32 younger sis: highly observant of dynamics
45:47 younger sis: comfort with conflict
48:25 younger sis: admiring your older siblings
49:00 younger sis: having boy vernacular and hobbies
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THE HOT PURSUIT PODCAST
Hosted and written by: Jennifer Han, Emily Lin, and Madelyn Ong
Produced by: Hot Pursuit Media and AsianBossGirl
Edited by: Josh Jang
Theme song: Shawn Halim
Graphic art: Kelsey Cordutsky ig: @kcord0912
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