Show Notes
Welcome back to Firestarter Mum – the podcast for ambitious mothers reclaiming their fire. After a 10-month pause, I’m back behind the mic—not because everything is perfect, but because I finally gave myself permission to show up imperfectly. In this solo episode, I reflect on what really happened during the break, why I stepped away from podcast visibility, and how motherhood, burnout, and Human Design helped me redefine what showing up actually means. I share the truth about trying to hustle like I used to before motherhood, why a digital product business didn’t work for me, and how I found my spark again through aligned, short-form activation coaching and simply letting myself speak—without a script. If you’ve ever questioned your energy, your rhythm, or whether you’re "doing enough" as a mum in business, this episode is for you. Because visibility isn't about performance anymore. It’s about alignment. Truth. Fire. And trusting your own timing. Listen now—and if you’re ready to reconnect with your voice and sense of self, don’t miss my free 7-day voice note experience: Find Her Again™. Click the link below and start today. subscribepage.io/findher Connect with me on Instagram @firestartermum and Linkedin @gosiascarrott Join the Firestarter community for more resources, connection, and unapologetic honesty. Find Your Fire & Shine! Gosia x
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In this spontaneous episode (recorded in the quiet before preschool pick-up), I share raw reflections about what visibility really means — beyond the nervous system, beyond Human Design, beyond strategy.
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