BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko

164: How To Stop Overthinking Your Relationship

BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko

Show Notes

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If you constantly overthink your relationship, analyse every text, question his tone, or feel anxious even when you’re with a genuinely good man… this episode is for you.

Because relationship anxiety isn’t always a sign that something is wrong with the relationship.

Sometimes, it’s a sign that your nervous system doesn’t yet know how to feel safe in love.

In this episode, we’re talking about: - why reassurance never fixes anxiety long-term - why healthy love can feel unfamiliar (and even boring) at first - how overthinking creates distance in relationships - anxious attachment, emotional regulation, and self-trust - how to stop spiraling and actually feel secure in love

If you’ve ever: • over-analysed a delayed text • needed constant reassurance • felt anxious in a healthy relationship • struggled with anxious attachment • found it hard to relax in love

…this will explain exactly why.

And if you’re ready to reset how you show up in relationships, Start the 30-Day Reset: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/unbotheredreset

Love you lots like jelly tots xx

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