Show Notes
Money is one of those things nobody talks about. Not really. You don't tell your friends what you earn. You don't admit how bad it got. You just quietly carry it — the fear, the shame, the 3am spiral about the bank balance. This week Sam and Delia are done with that.
This is the honest money conversation every divorced woman needs but rarely gets. What it really feels like to manage it solo, why worrying about it is making everything worse, and what actually shifts when you finally change your relationship with it.
In this episode you'll hear about: 🔥 Sam's honest money story — two financial rock bottoms, four kids, and what she did both times to pull herself out 🔥 Why worrying about money isn't protecting you, it's just keeping you up at night and stopping you from thinking straight 🔥 The moment Sam realised she was allowed to have more money, and why that belief was the thing that changed everything 🔥 What Delia did when her income dropped dramatically, and the mindset shift that pulled her out of it 🔥 How to stop the money spiral before it takes over your whole day — the exact technique Sam & Delia use when the thoughts start coming in 🔥 Why women don't talk about money enough, and what happens when we start
These are some of the books that shifted both of their money mindsets completely: You Are a Badass at Making Money by Jen Sincero Happy Money by Ken Honda Expat Millionaire by Andrew Hallam
Part two is coming and it's packed with practical ideas for earning more money whatever your situation. But Sam and Delia are clear: none of those ideas work until you sort this bit first.
So, listen now!
Get in touch with Sam & Delia through Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/delia.monk/ https://www.instagram.com/sambrindlecoaching/
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