Accountable

Ep. 47 - Taylor Swift Was Right...Your Energy Is a Luxury Item

Accountable

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Send a text When Taylor Swift said, “You should think of your energy as if it’s expensive, as if it’s a luxury item. Not everyone can afford it,” the internet went wild. And for good reason because we needed to hear it. In this solo episode of Accountable, I break down how to apply Taylor’s wisdom beyond relationships and criticism, into your everyday goals, projects, and business tasks. You’ll learn: How to do an Energy Audit The difference between “luxury tasks” and “cheap tasks” Why...

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