The Kiwi Wedding Podcast

163. The Watermill Bakery, Wairarapa Wedding with Bride Lydia Jameson, Founder of We Are The Whimsy

The Kiwi Wedding Podcast

Show Notes

What happens when you stop worrying about what a wedding is supposed to look like and create something completely your own?

This week Iโ€™m chatting with Lydia, founder of We Are The Whimsy, about her Wairarapa wedding, planning a beautiful day on a tight budget, and the creative decisions that made it so personal.

We chat about: ๐Ÿ’œ Planning a wedding on a $15,000 budget ๐Ÿ’œ Finding creative alternatives to traditional wedding suppliers ๐Ÿ’œ Choosing a wedding dress outside of a bridal boutique ๐Ÿ’œ Growing flowers (or trying to) for your own wedding ๐Ÿ’œ Creating a wedding around things you genuinely love ๐Ÿ’œ The pressure of Instagram and endless wedding inspiration ๐Ÿ’œ Her unique pay-what-you-like pottery shop ๐Ÿ’œ The reality of DIY weddings: money vs time and effort ๐Ÿ’œ Post-wedding blues and what happened to all those flowers ๐Ÿ’œ How her wedding led to the creation of We Are The Whimsy ๐Ÿ’œ The rise of drapery and creating more beautiful spaces ๐Ÿ’œ Why couples are moving away from โ€œwhat a wedding should look likeโ€ ๐Ÿ’œ Creating a wedding that feels like you

โ€ฆand so much more!

Follow Lydia: @wearethewhimsy

Wedding Vendors: Photographer: @lightbynika Content: @bylarissadeanacarlson Bouquets: @lavendermagicnz Giant florals: @ventana.art.space Floral support: @the_gladstone_grower Celebrant: @wendymorrisoncelebrant Venue: The Watermill Bakery Food: The Watermill Bakery & @rose_and_smith Hair & Makeup: Brideโ€™s Friend Dress: @_aje_

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Iโ€™ll be joined by: ๐Ÿ’œ Kate Holmes from Soirรฉe ๐Ÿ’œ Kasia Stanicich, makeup artist & educator ๐Ÿ’œ Sarah Borrell from Amour Weddings ๐Ÿ’œ Jess Brooker from Flock Events

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