The Power of the Pre-Emptive Thank You Wave: Unlocking Pre-Emptive Empathy in Conflict

In this episode, Simon Goode explores practical strategies for managing conflict with your boss, using three workplace case studies: public criticism in meetings, unrealistic deadlines, and credit being taken for ideas. He breaks down each scenario using five types of conflict—data, values, relationships, structure, and interests—and shares targeted tools such as empathetic listening and clarifying expectations. Listeners gain actionable frameworks to navigate difficult conversations and stre...

In this episode, Simon Goode explores practical strategies for young professionals to navigate workplace conflict without harming their reputations, using real-life case studies of early-career employees facing challenges like having their ideas dismissed, feeling undermined, or disagreeing with management decisions. He highlights the importance of self-regulation, assertive communication, and choosing appropriate conflict modes—such as accommodating, collaborating, or compromising—based on s...

In this episode, Simon Goode examines the challenges of passive-aggressive behavior in the workplace through three case studies: the silent treatment after feedback, backhanded comments in meetings, and staff who agree outwardly but later undermine decisions. He explores practical approaches for HR managers and team leaders, highlighting different conflict types and strategies such as empathetic listening, clarifying expectations, and leveraging structural changes. The episode emphasizes the ...

In this episode, Simon Goode explores the challenges of managing underperforming employees by analyzing three workplace case studies involving declining output, quality issues, and inconsistent performance. He discusses practical frameworks such as the What-Ask-Check model and the GROW coaching model to give and structure negative feedback effectively. The episode emphasizes the need for specificity, empathy, and clear goal-setting when addressing performance concerns in teams. TIMESTAMPS:&n...

In this episode, Simon Goode analyzes three workplace conflict case studies centered on unfair workloads, including a passive-aggressive response to feedback, perceptions of favoritism in task allocation, and resentment from covering for a colleague's lack of effort. Simon Goode explores different conflict resolution frameworks such as the GROW coaching model and the five types of conflict: data, interest, value, structure, and relationship. He emphasizes the importance of clarifying expectat...