Dr Billy Garvey wants you to rethink masculinity for your son's sake
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If you've been paying attention to the news, to your social media feeds or to really any and all pop culture lately, you've likely heard that boys are not alright. They're isolated and mentally vulnerable. They're getting sucked into this thing called the manosphere. They're behind in school. But if you're only looking at the bad parts, the beauty and complexity of raising boys can be hard to see. And once certain ideas become entrenched, from these headlines or from the ways your own parents raised you, these negative outcomes can feel like an inevitability. But developmental paediatrician and author Dr Billy Garvey says it's never too late to try a new approach, in fact it's never been more important to try.
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