Your Estate Matters

Episode 23 - How Discussing Death Can Enrich Family Relationships with Alyson Jones

Your Estate Matters

Show Notes

In this week's episode, Nicole and Greg engage in a compelling discussion with Alyson Jones, a renowned therapist, educator, and bestselling author. Alyson shares her extensive experience in therapy, focusing on family dynamics, separation, divorce, grief, and legacy planning. The conversation highlights the importance of building resilient families, navigating grief, and fostering open discussions about death and financial matters. Alyson emphasizes transparency in estate planning to mitigate family conflicts and underscores the value of therapy in managing life's significant transitions. -- Follow Alyson Jones: Book - https://www.amazon.ca/New-Philosophy-Exceptional-Living-R/dp/1771410159 Website - https://www.alysonjones.ca/ LinkedIn - https://ca.linkedin.com/company/alyson-jones-&-associates Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/AlysonJonesAssociates/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alysonjonesassociates/

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