Self-Helpless

I Was Raised in a Cult: High-Control Groups Disguised as Therapy for Children & Families with Chase

Self-Helpless

Show Notes

Delanie Fischer continues the “Subscriber Stories” series with subscriber Chase, who shares her experience growing up in a cult. They discuss how her family was first drawn in, the systems of control that kept them involved for over a decade, and how she eventually left. Plus, what's supported Chase's healing over the last several years.

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Episode Highlights:

How Chase Was “Brainwashed” — And Where She Is Now

When Attachment Theory and Group Therapy Go Wrong

Parents Seeking Support for Kids: 7 Red Flags to Watch For

Nature vs. Nurture and the Dangers of All-or-Nothing Thinking

When Your Manipulator’s Voice Becomes Your Inner Dialogue

Sexual Repression, Shame, Divorce, and Reclaiming Sexuality

Cult Trauma: Psychological Abuse, PTSD, Enmeshment, and Guilt

Recovery: Building Confidence, Self-Trust, and Living Authentically

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