
Show Notes
David McGowan Explains the Process and Options In this episode, renowned funeral director David McGowan talks honestly and compassionately about what happens after someone dies. With decades of experience, David shares what families can expect — from the first phone call to funeral arrangements, burial versus. cremation, and the healing power of ritual. Together, they explore: What really happens when someone passes, at home, in hospital or hospice The emotional and practical decisions involved in arranging a funeral Cremation vs. burial: costs, options, and myths The spiritual connection between nature and grief How planning ahead can bring peace to both the living and the dying This episode offers reassurance, practical guidance, and soul-soothing reflection — for anyone navigating loss, supporting a loved one, or preparing for the future. Discover The Journey Together, a podcast by North West Hospice Charity. Hear advice, personal stories, guidance and emotional support for patients, families, and caregivers navigating palliative care.
“It’s not just about a black suit and a black tie—it’s about honouring a life.”
“One of the things that can turn a one-hour meeting into three is when no one knows what the person would have wanted…That’s when the fighting starts. I’ve seen families fall out forever…But if the person just mentioned a few wishes… it would have saved all that.”
Guest: David McGowan *Host: Tara Rafter, The Navigation Coach* Show music: #mobygratis @mobygratis Episode Sponsor: McCanny & Co Solicitors This podcast is produced by Verver by North West Hospice Charity
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