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What Makes Someone a Proven Winner?
You were born to win — but there's a difference between being born to win and being a proven winner. A proven winner doesn't just win once. They consistently respond to challenges in a way that produces victories and glorifies God. Not just for a season, decade after decade. And when this life is over, they keep winning throughout eternity.
In this message, Dr. Eric Thomas takes us deep into Nehemiah 2 to expose what makes someone a proven winner — and the one thing most of us are getting wrong. Using Isaiah 43 and Philippians 2, ET breaks down the character, formation, and mindset that let Nehemiah the cupbearer rebuild a 140-year-broken wall in just 52 days. It wasn't just faith. It wasn't just favor. It was who Nehemiah was before he ever touched the wall.
Nehemiah was all in. As cupbearer, his job was to drink the king's wine first in case of poison, every day, he could die. He wasn't doing five or six things at once. He was all in on one. And when the king saw sadness on his face, it wasn't for himself — his heart was broken for his people. He wasn't asking God to bless him and his family; he was asking God to rebuild what had been broken for generations.
That's the missing piece. Most of us want the reward but not the character that comes with it. We want God to bless us, but we only care about us and ours. Nehemiah did nothing out of selfish ambition — he valued others above himself. And because of that, when he asked the king for time, safe passage, timber, and a place to stay, the king gave him everything — plus an army and a cavalry. When your interest is the same as God's, you have unlimited access.
IN THIS MESSAGE YOU'LL DISCOVER:
→ Why you're not just born to win, you are a proven winner
→ What makes a proven winner: consistency through challenges, not just one season of success
→ Why Nehemiah was all in on one thing, and how it allowed him to rebuild in 52 days
→ The cupbearer revelation: how being willing to die daily positioned Nehemiah for favor
→ Why sadness of heart is different than selfish ambition, and what it means to carry a burden for others
→ How to stop making everything about you and yours, and start moving like you're precious in God's sight
→ Why you must pray to God before you speak to man, and how Nehemiah did it in real time
→ The four fruits of a proven winner: all in, burden for others, praying first, and bold asking
→ How to ask like you're the child of God and expect the army and the cavalry
📖 KEY SCRIPTURES:
Isaiah 43:1-4 - You are precious in My sight, honorable, and I have loved you
Nehemiah 2:1-9 - The king notices Nehemiah's sadness and grants his requests
Philippians 2:3-4 - Do nothing out of selfish ambition; value others above yourself
Matthew 6:33 - Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness
Matthew 7:7-8 - Ask and it shall be given; seek and ye shall find
John 10:10 - I have come that you may have life, and have it more abundantly
CHAPTERS:
Chapters
00:00:00 Welcome: The Gift of Being Precious in God's Sight 00:00:40 Isaiah 43: Since Thou Art Precious in My Sight 00:01:47 Moving Like You're Precious: Relationships and Resources 00:05:20 Not Just Born to Win: You Are a Proven Winner 00:09:25 What Makes a Proven Winner: Consistency Through Challenges 00:16:41 Nehemiah Chapter 2: The King Notices Something is Wrong 00:22:31 The Cupbearer: All In on One Thing 00:24:53 Sadness of Heart: When Your Burden is for Others 00:28:41 Philippians 2: Do Nothing Out of Selfish Ambition 00:43:04 Then I Prayed to the God of Heaven 00:51:17 Ask and It Shall Be Given: Nehemiah's Bold Requests 00:54:44 The Army and the Cavalry: God's Full Protection 00:56:25 The Four Fruits of a Proven Winner 01:00:03 Altar Call: Coming All In for What God Has Called You To 01:02:25 Prayer for Dallas: Declaring Healing and God's Provision
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