Girlfriend Material

“Wait… am I gay?” 😵‍💫, coming out later in life 💌, and trusting the psychic 🔮 with Star Holroyd

Girlfriend Material

Show Notes

This week Rosie is joined by Star Holroyd to unpack her journey to queerness, from navigating years of dating men, to finally acting on her attraction to women in her 30s, and trusting in her psychic to find her the love of her life 🌈

They chat about Star’s journey from making TikToks during lockdown to becoming known for her millennial humour, and how comedy became her way of making sense of her life. Star opens up about knowing she liked women from a young age, but not fully acting on it until her 30s - proving that there’s no timeline when it comes to figuring yourself out 💌

The two get into the chaos of dating men when all you’re actually thinking about are boobs and meal prepping, and how one date with the right person can completely change everything. Star shares her story of meeting her now fiancée, and how a psychic (yes, really) played a part in bringing them back together 🔮

They also talk about the differences between coming out younger vs later in life, from navigating dating culture to feeling more grounded in who you are. Star reflects on how maturity gave her the confidence to embrace her identity fully, while Rosie shares her own experience of figuring things out earlier and the overwhelm that can come with it ✨

From Pinterest boards that suddenly make sense to planning a queer wedding and sharing that journey online, this episode is a celebration of growth, timing, and trusting that you’ll get there when you’re meant to 💞

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