The Post-Separation Abuse Podcast

100. The game is the same - 17 Years, 100 Episodes, and the debut of 'Stronger, Braver, Together'

The Post-Separation Abuse Podcast

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One hundred episodes. In this milestone episode, Danielle Black does something she has never quite done before - she tells the full truth about where this work came from, what it has cost, and why she hasn't walked away. More than seventeen years ago, Danielle was a young mother with a 12-month-old son. She was told by a family lawyer to agree to the 50/50 care arrangements that her abusive ex was demanding. She developed C-PTSD. She kept her phone on silent for a decade because the sound of ...

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