The Secret Life of Swingers

S2 Ep11 Double Standards in the LS

The Secret Life of Swingers

Show Notes

Double standards… we all see them, but are we willing to talk about them? 👀 Why is it sometimes sexy, empowering, or “just fun” when a woman crosses a boundary, but when a man makes the same move, he can instantly be labeled creepy or predatory? In the lifestyle, the rules can feel different depending on who’s making the move. But should they be? On this episode of The Secret Life of Swingers, we’re calling out the double standards, challenging the assumptions, and asking the uncomfortable questions about consent, boundaries, and who gets a pass.

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