Show Notes
Everyone says feed, play, sleep is the golden rule. But what happens when your baby catnaps every 32 minutes and you're stuck feeding like a newborn at 8 months old?
In this episode, Sally and Bec unpack why feed-play-sleep has a shelf life—and what to do when you're trapped in a snacky feeding cycle that's sabotaging naps and nights. They break down anchored feeds, why religious adherence to any routine can backfire, and how to actually structure your day when the math just doesn't math.
What You'll Learn: • Why feed-play-sleep works brilliantly for some babies but becomes a trap for catnapping families • The exact moment feed-play-sleep stops working (and what replaces it) • How to break the snacky feeding cycle that's keeping you stuck in short naps • Why your baby wakes at the 30-minute mark even when they're not hungry • How anchored feeds future-proof overnight sleep without formal sleep training • The real reason a 5-month-old on 4 naps can't follow 4-hourly feeds religiously • What to prioritize first: environment, schedule, feeds, or settling technique • Why that "cold babies cry, hot babies die" hospital advice is causing sleep chaos
Chapters: 00:00 Intro + Camp Snooze success story from Vietnam 07:43 What is feed, play, sleep and when does it work? 16:16 The catnapping trap: why feed-play-sleep creates snacky feeders 20:58 Listener question: making the math work on 4 naps 27:09 How to rescue naps while transitioning to anchored feeds 33:11 Sleep Detectives: is my baby low sleep needs or just waking early? 46:48 Where to start when sleep has never been good 51:43 Fast Four: rating favorite biscuits (milk arrowroots vs iced vovos)
🎙️ ABOUT NAP TRAPPED Sally Woods and Bec Maher are baby sleep consultants who believe exhausted parents deserve real answers, not judgment. Each episode of Nap Trapped breaks down one sleep challenge with evidence-based advice and a healthy dose of humor.
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