This Is Your Nudge

This is Your Nudge to Step into Freedom with Mac Bridges & Kenz Durham

This Is Your Nudge

Show Notes

Do you ever put pressure on yourself to read your Bible enough? Pray enough? Make the right choices.?Say the right things? Love people well? Don't mess up? It can feel like a lot. In this episode, I’m sitting down with Mac Bridges and Kenz Durham (you might know them from their For the Girl podcast or Delight Ministries) to talk about the pressure we put on ourselves to get our faith “right” and what God is actually asking of us when He calls us to holiness. Because here's something we all need to hear: holiness and perfection are not the same thing. God isn't waiting for us to finally become flawless before He can love us, use us, or draw near to us. He already loves us, uses us, and is near us always! We have Jesus, His grace, and the Holy Spirit to help us accomplish what we could never do on our own. And there is so much freedom in that. Mac, Kenz, and I talk about what it looks like to pursue a life that reflects the goodness of Jesus without turning our faith into another impossible standard we're constantly trying to meet. Holiness isn't about never getting it wrong. It's about allowing God to continually shape us, grow us, and teach us to become more like Jesus. The important difference between holiness and perfection

We can ditch the exhaustion that comes from trying to earn something Jesus has already provided

How God's grace meets us in the places we can't do it on our own

Why pursuing holiness can look like pursuing goodness and becoming more like Jesus

The freedom of knowing you don't have to always “get it right”

How grace and growth work together

What it looks like to bring our faith into ordinary, everyday life

Maybe you've spent years believing that growing closer to God meant trying harder, doing more, and messing up less. But what if the goal was never perfection? What if the invitation is to keep following Jesus? To receive His grace when you fall short, let Him change you, and then get back up and keep walking with Him? You don't have to live afraid that you're going to get this wrong. This is your nudge to stop chasing perfection and start walking in the grace, goodness, and freedom Jesus has already given you. Mac Bridges and Kenz Durham are the cofounders of Delight Ministries, which has expanded to 200 college campuses, and hosts of the podcast For the Girl. Both are dedicated to serving young women in college and beyond. Now as wives and mamas, Mac and Kenz continue to create resources for women in similar seasons of life. Mac lives in Charlotte, North Carolina, and Kenz lives in Vero Beach, Florida. 💛 Make sure you're following This Is Your Nudge so you don't miss a single episode as we stop making excuses, step out of someday, and into the promises and goodness God has for us today. Links: Laura L. Smith: Website: https://www.laurasmithauthor.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurasmithauthor/ Brave Woman, Mighty God book https://amzn.to/4rpX5lk

Mac & Kenz links: Website: https://forthegirl.com/ Freedom Looks Good on You Bible study https://amzn.to/4wW1OgZ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/forthegirl___/?hl=en Here’s what you’ll take away from this episode:About Mac Bridges & Kenz Durham

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