From 20 Weeks to 30 Years: How TEDx Speaker and CEO Audrey Williams Joseph Turned Her NICU Experience Into Lifelong Change | S3E60
The NICU Space by Miracle MoonShow Notes
When she went into labour at 20 weeks pregnant, Audrey Williams Joseph was told that her baby would not survive. 30 years later, he’s living his life and was Audrey’s inspiration for creating the support that she never had in the 90s – six residential care homes for children and adults that have additional needs. Audrey is a true inspiration, and this episode will help you to redefine what you think of as winning, and celebrate the small moments that make up each day.
In this episode, we’re chatting about: - Audrey’s son, who was born at 20 weeks and wasn’t expected to survive - The impact of being in limbo in NICU - Having faith to stay strong and overcome doctors’ predictions - How Audrey turned her experience into a mission to create care homes
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