Promising Young Surgeon

Experiencing Residency as a Young Couple: Frances Mei & Colin's Story

Promising Young Surgeon

Show Notes

On this week’s Promising Young Surgeon, Dr. Frances Mei Hardin and her husband Colin share an intimate look at the dynamics of their relationship during her years of residency. From their serendipitous meeting to navigating professional and personal milestones together, they reveal the challenges and triumphs of building a life while immersed in the demanding world of medical training.

Listen as they discuss the strategies that helped them stay connected, including the implementation of 'relationship contracts' and establishing boundaries to preserve their sanity and happiness. Frances Mei and Colin's candid conversation offers a blueprint for other couples facing similar journeys.

00:00 – Introduction to Us 14:30 – Advice for Moving to a New City with Your Partner 17:50 – Junior Call 24:57 – Senior Call 27:45 – Relationship Tips 33:09 – Relationship Contracts

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