Sissy dating: listener wants help with a new relationship with Goddess Demi
The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power DynamicsShow Notes
Navigating dating is challenging. It can be even more difficult if someone is kinky. Today’s episode is inspired by a sissy dating question brought to us by Goddess Demi. Ms Demi, joins the podcast to explore this and add her advice.
Here’s the inspiration and the question from a sissy who just got out of a long term marriage. Sissy has met a wonderful woman who is willing to explore being with a submissive sissy. NOW WHAT?
Today’s topics include: The full background from Goddess Demi.What does TRY really mean? What if one person wants monogamy and the other does not? How does a submissive sissy express desires without topping from the bottom? Is it possible for a woman who says she is not naturally dominant to learn to be a Femdom? What is power exchange? What are some Femdom relationship power dynamics? When is a good time to disclose kinky desires with a new partner? What does emotional safety and vulnerability mean in the context of exploring kink?
Goddess Demi, Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika all have experiences dating while kinky so while the sissy sent the question that inspired this episode, many of the comments can apply to others navigating kink and dating.
Are YOU struggling with when to disclose your kink? Are you a sissy who is trying to find a partner?T his episode is for you – and we want to hear about your experiences.
DISCORD: LDWDemi, LDWErika and LDWOlivia
Goddess Demi [email protected] Ms Demi’s blog: Sensual Cock Tease
Mistress [email protected] Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika [email protected] Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
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