Tribe and Tribulations With Julia Makowsky

The Courage to Call: Supporting Jewish Women Through Unplanned Pregnancies

Tribe and Tribulations With Julia Makowsky

Show Notes

In this deeply important and rarely discussed episode, Julia sits down with Erica Pelman, founder of Shifra, the only American-based organization dedicated to supporting Jewish women through unplanned pregnancies. From the woman with ten children who discovers she's unexpectedly pregnant again, to the 44-year-old who thought her baby years were behind her, to the teenager facing an impossible decision, Shifra offers counseling, financial assistance, practical resources, and unconditional support through pregnancy and beyond.

Erica shares the personal story that led her to create Shifra 17 years ago, the struggles of building trust in a community where shame and silence often prevail, and the layers of care required to truly support women in crisis.

This episode tackles the vulnerability of pregnancy, the courage it takes to ask for help, and the transformative power of unconditional love. Whether you're navigating an unplanned pregnancy, supporting someone who is, or simply want to understand how to show up for women in crisis, this conversation is a reminder that no one has to suffer in silence.

for more information on this amazing organization: https://www.instagram.com/call_shifra/

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