Show Notes
I thought I had worked on my control issues from trauma but then I got sick, really sick. There were some loose ends that didn't make it into my awareness until I literally couldn't do the things I liked to control! Surprising real-life ways control shows up (one I had no idea I was doing too) The major childhood wound it is attached to and how to re-process it to break the pattern of NEEDING to control...
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