Dad Tired

The Lie Every Man Believes About His Past (Jermaine Wilson)

Dad Tired

Show Notes

Mentioned in today's Episode: - Dad Tired One Dy Conferences - Attend the Annual Retreat - Become a Dad Tired Partner - Shop the Dad Tired Store - Prison Fellowship Most men carry a story they’re ashamed of. Bad decisions. A past they wish they could erase. A quiet fear that maybe they’ve already messed things up too badly. Jermaine Wilson knows that feeling. By 15 he was in juvenile corrections. By 19 he was in prison again… holding his baby son and wondering if he would ever become the man his family needed. But prison became the place where everything changed. Through the gospel, brotherhood, and the grace of God, Jermaine’s life was completely transformed. Today he’s a father, grandfather, leader with Prison Fellowship… and even served as mayor of the city where he was once incarcerated. If you’ve ever wondered whether God can redeem your story, this episode is for you.

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