Think Thursday: Why Certainty Comes After Action

What if changing your behavior wasn’t about getting it right—but about learning what works? In this revisited Think Thursday episode, Molly explores the iterative mindset, an approach to behavior change that replaces success-or-failure thinking with experimenting, assessing, and adjusting. You’ll learn: Why mistakes can provide valuable information for your brain How perfectionism can interfere with sustainable behavior change Why struggle and effort are important parts of learning How to treat each attempt as an experiment instead of a pass-or-fail test Why compassion and curiosity can help you stay engaged when things don’t go according to plan How small adjustments over time can create lasting change The goal isn’t perfection. It’s staying in the process long enough to learn, adjust, and keep moving forward. Research mentioned: Work by researcher Jason Moser and colleagues examining how the brain responds to mistakes and learning.

300 episodes. 600,000 downloads. Nearly six years of conversations about alcohol, neuroscience, mindset, and changing our relationship with drinking. In this milestone episode, I'm taking a moment to celebrate the journey of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, reflect on how it all began in December 2020, and share some of the biggest lessons I've learned along the way. From the science of behavior change to the importance of curiosity, compassion, and intentional living, this episode is both a look back and a celebration of what's possible when we keep showing up. Most importantly, it's a chance to say thank you to everyone who has listened, shared an episode, or been part of the Alcohol Minimalist community. Here's to 300 episodes, 600,000 downloads, and everything still ahead! Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA: Healthy men under 65: No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week. Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older: No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week. One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink. Abstinence from alcohol Abstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past. Benefits of “low-risk” drinking Following these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work.

Think Thursday: The Strange Psychology of Almost Why do Olympic bronze medalists sometimes appear happier than silver medalists? The answer reveals something fascinating about how our brains process disappointment, success, and the things that almost happened. In this episode of Think Thursday, we're exploring counterfactual thinking—our brain's tendency to imagine alternative outcomes and how those imagined possibilities influence our emotions. We'll explore: Why finishing second can sometimes feel worse than finishing third. How "if only" and "what if" thinking shape our emotional experiences. Why near misses can create surprisingly intense disappointment. The difference between learning from the past and getting stuck in regret. How becoming aware of our mental comparisons can help us appreciate our progress. The takeaway: What happened is only part of the experience. What we believe it means—and what we're comparing it to—plays a powerful role in how we feel. Research mentioned: Medvec, Madey & Gilovich (1995) — When Less Is More: Counterfactual Thinking and Satisfaction Among Olympic Medalists. Kahneman & Miller (1986) — Norm Theory: Comparing Reality to Its Alternatives.

This week on The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, I'm joined by Dean Chew, creator of AlcoLog, an alcohol tracking app designed to help you build awareness, recognize drinking patterns, and make more intentional choices about alcohol. Dean shares his personal journey with alcohol, including his experience with naltrexone and The Sinclair Method, and how his own struggles inspired him to create a tool to help others change their drinking habits. What I especially appreciate about AlcoLog is its flexible, nonjudgmental approach. Whether you're working toward moderation, adding more alcohol-free days, or choosing sobriety, the app helps you: Track your drinks and better understand your drinking patterns. Monitor your progress and recognize positive changes over time. Track medications, including naltrexone, alongside your alcohol consumption. Set personal goals that support your individual relationship with alcohol. Stay motivated with challenges and tools that encourage consistency. Dean also shares details about AlcoLog's free Sober October challenge, which you can join anytime during October. If you're looking for a practical, science-informed way to become more mindful about your drinking, this conversation is for you. Because changing your relationship with alcohol starts with awareness—and progress doesn't have to mean perfection. Resources: AlcoLog App:https://alcolog.app/ Free Sober October Challenge: Available in the AlcoLog app Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA: Healthy men under 65: No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week. Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older: No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week. One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink. Abstinence from alcohol Abstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past. Benefits of “low-risk” drinking Following these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work.

Why do we sometimes struggle to follow through on our best intentions? The answer may have less to do with willpower and more to do with how easy—or difficult—we make our choices. This week on Think Thursday, we're exploring the behavioral science behind friction, default choices, and how our environment influences our habits. In this episode: Why our brains naturally favor choices that require less effort. How the default effect influences everyday decisions. What behavioral science teaches us about reducing friction. Simple ways to make healthier habits easier and unwanted habits less convenient. Why setting yourself up for success is often more effective than relying on discipline. The takeaway: Meaningful change requires effort, but unnecessary obstacles don't have to be part of the process. Sometimes making better choices starts with making those choices easier. Research mentioned: Johnson & Goldstein (2003), Do Defaults Save Lives? — Science Behavioural Insights Team (2014), EAST: Four Simple Ways to Apply Behavioural Insights