Dads Who Mosh

Episode 27 - Interview w/ Jon Gustin of The Tired Dad

Dads Who Mosh

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Podcast Info

Welcome to the Dads Who Mosh Podcast!

This week, the dads are joined by Jon Gustin, better known as The Tired Dad. What started off as humorous social media posts about the struggles of dad-hood has now grown into a full blown movement with hundreds of videos, over a million followers and a new book. Jon’s openness and honesty are an encouragement to dads to take their mental health seriously, be willing to lay down their ego, and understand that in this day and age, dads are asked to do so much more than ever before, and if you’re showing up, and you’re tired, that means you’re doing it right.

Jon, Nate and Jesse talk about lessons we’ve learned from dad-hood, the joys of watching our kids grow up and sobriety. The guys also cover the magic of music that came out in the late 90’s, early 00’s and the impact of nu-metal and grunge on heavy music today, as well as “moshing” at home with our kids. We also hear the super cool story of how Jon connected with legendary actor, Josh Brolin.

Be sure to check out Jon on Instagram : @thetireddad Be sure also to check out his book, “The Tired Dad”. Visit tireddad.com for more information.

In hardcore news: - Is Bananagate finally over? - Bands like Silent Planet and Boundaries are taking a stand against venue-enforced merch fees - Phil Labonte of All That Remains says that therapy is for women and men don't figure things out by talking

New Music Releases: - 100 Demons, "Embrace the Black Light" (Album) - Gallowspine, "Northern Hostility" (EP) - Also, a band you should know (@gallowspineband)

Additions to the Dads Who Mosh Playlist: - Jon Gustin - "Roots, Bloody Roots" by Sepultura - Jesse - "Can't Forget" by No Pressure - Nate - "Armed with a Mind" by Have Heart

Upcoming Shows: - Jesse: Sleeping Giant, June 20th, Pomona; Outta Pocket, Fatal Realm, June 25th, San Diego

Follow Us: -Instagram: @dadswhomosh

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