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744 how to friend at work: navigating workplace friendships with Steph Clarke

this is work

Show Notes

Can you be friends with the boss or the people that you lead? In this episode Shell chats with Steph Clarke who has a Substack called How To Friend, about the messy, beautiful, and sometimes awkward world of workplace friendships.

👉🏾 Steph’s interest in studying friendship and starting How to Friend 👉🏿 can you be friends with the boss? 👉🏻 perceptions of favouritism 👉 proximity, frequency, and why it's normal for work friendships to fade 👉🏼 the foundation for good work friendships 👉🏽 energy giving vs energy draining behaviours 👉🏾 identifying oversharing and emotional hijacking 👉🏿 showing your best self vs whole self at work 👉🏻 defining friendship 👉 Shell's thoughts on work friendships

Connect with Steph on LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/steph-clarke/

Subscribe to Steph's Substack, How To Friend: https://howtofriend.substack.com/

If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/

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