Dear Shandy

Q&A! Blinded By Breadcrumbs & Does His Bad Taste Mean Bad Compatibility? - Ep 460

Dear Shandy

Show Notes

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you love your husband but find his career boring AF, should you feign interest to spare his feelings, or be 100% honest about your disinterest? Is it acceptable to become close friends with your best friend's partner, even if your best friend doesn't approve? Has Shandy ever dated anyone who brought out the worst in them, and what are their thoughts on "breadcrumbing" in dating? Finally, if your date regularly brings you the ugliest flowers you've ever seen, does that speak to a deeper compatibility and "taste" issue? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:17 - Q1: I’m Bored To Tears When My Husband Talks About His Job—AITA? 21:16 - Q2: Can I Be Best Friends With My Best Friend’s Wife? 30:27 - Q3: I’m Still Hung Up On A Girl Who Brought Out The Worst In Me—Help! 43:42 - Q4: My New Flame Is Great But His Taste Is Not—Help!

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