Ep 208: Are You Ready for Honest Feedback? with Bianca Juarez, Amy Ayala, Cesar Delgado, and Sam Tenney
We're Going There with Bianca JuarezShow Notes
Has your spiritual growth hit a plateau? Amy and I are back with our friends Cesar Delgado and Sam Tenney to share their journeys and the transformative power of honest feedback in spiritual growth.
We aren’t just talking about surface-level advice; we’re getting real about trust, submission, and the beauty of doing life together. I’m sharing how honest, sometimes difficult feedback is actually the fuel that refines your character and sharpens your skills. If you’ve ever wondered why you aren’t growing, this conversation might just be the wake-up call you’ve been waiting for.
You’ll hear about the power of personal investment and how biblical insights can completely shift your perspective on your calling. Mentorship isn't about knowing everything - it’s about the transformative power of vulnerability. You’re not going to know something about your blind spots unless somebody loves you enough to point them out! Get ready to be challenged, encouraged, and equipped to level up your walk with God.
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Let’s keep growing together.
Love you,
B
Chapter Timestamps
00:00 Introduction to Mentorship and Discipleship
02:13 The Personal Journeys of Our Guests
05:05 What True Mentorship Looks Like
07:46 The Role of Trust and Submission
12:11 Honest Feedback as a Growth Tool
16:11 Seasonal Seasons of Mentoring
20:08 The Power of Personal Investment
24:05 Overcoming Challenges in Mentoring
28:05 Different Discipling Methods
32:01 The Impact of Honest Critique
36:05 The Importance of Willingness and Availability
39:52 Trusting God and Leaders
44:01 Encouragement for Mentors and Mentees
47:47 Practical Advice for Aspiring Mentors
52:00 Closing Remarks and Final Thoughts
Resources & Links
Follow Amy Ayala: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en
Follow Sam Tenney: https://www.instagram.com/samuel_10e/
Follow Cesar Delgado: https://www.instagram.com/cesar_delgado
Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC
Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq
All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources
Key Takeaways
Mentorship is about doing life together: It’s more than just a meeting; it’s coming alongside others and sharing the journey.
Trust and submission are non-negotiable: These aren’t "bad" words—they are the foundational pillars of any effective, life-changing mentoring relationship.
Feedback is your best friend: Honest critique might sting in the moment, but it’s the most powerful tool you have to refine your character and skills.
Every journey is unique: Stop comparing your growth to someone else’s; your mentoring needs are tailored to your specific calling and season.
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