S2 Ep17 Unpacking coercive control and the impacts on families with Kate Fylan
Conversations with KristiShow Notes
CONTENT WARNING - language warning, discussions about domestic violence and trauma
In this episode, Kristi speaks with Kate Fylan who has over 20 years experience with a Diploma in Social Worker, a qualified Counsellor and Play Therapist, primarily working within in the domestic violence, childhood sexual abuse and harmful sexualised behaviours spaces and portfolios.
Kate offers an interesting viewpoint around gendered based parenting, coercive control, domestic violence, how to have conversations with your kids around these topics and repair your relationships with your children when we make mistakes.
This is a great conversation for parents of children of any age about the importance of being real with them and how to have conversations with your kids around important social topics.
You can follow or connect with Kate via LinkedIn at www.linkedin.com/in/kate-fylan-41829aa2.
If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor.
Lifeline - 131114
Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636
Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935
1800 Respect - 1800 737 732
For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com.
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