Whit’s Journey Through Miscarriage, Fertility Treatments, and Finding Her Miracle
Trying To Be Positive With Anne MatthewsShow Notes
In this episode of Trying to Be Positive, Anne sits down with Whit to share a raw, hopeful fertility story: three losses, multiple failed transfers, and the heartbreak of “it’s not going to happen." From the shock of recurrent pregnancy loss to navigating IVF, IUI, and surrogacy setbacks, Whit opens up about NK cells, low LAD, sperm DNA fragmentation, ERA/EMMA/ALICE results, and why “try another retrieval” wasn’t the full picture. Anne breaks down what immune factors can mean for implantation and how small shifts in care, advocacy, and timing can change everything. If you’ve been told donor eggs or surrogacy are your only options or you’re stuck after “normal” test results—this conversation is for you. You’re not alone, there is hope, and your questions matter.
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