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How to develop your players’ social skills with Danny Fenner | S5 Ep12

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Show Notes

Social skills are a fundamental part of football, helping players build stronger relationships, improve teamwork, and handle conflicts. But it’s easy to forget to give these skills the attention they need when designing your practices.

In this episode, FA coach development officer, Danny Fenner, returns to Coachcast to share his journey and offer invaluable advice for integrating social development into your coaching.

Danny breaks down the role that coaches play in shaping players' social skills. This episode is packed with real-world examples and expert insights. Danny challenges coaches to rethink their approach, to help shape not just better players, but more confident, resilient individuals - both on and off the pitch.

In this episode, we cover:

why teaching social skills is essential in football

what good social skills look like across different age groups

advice for coaches working with players with disabilities to improve social skills

tips for helping introverted players and encouraging leadership qualities

how to integrate social skill development into your practices

encouraging player-to-player feedback and empathy

how to handle player conflicts and turn them into learning opportunities

the role of parents and guardians in supporting social skill development

how the non-verbal side of communication comes into play

Danny’s top coaching tips

and much more…

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