Show Notes
Erika Fairweather - Paris Olympics 2024 - In this episode of How are you, really? , we sat down with the remarkable Erika Fairweather, fresh off the Paris Olympics, who became the first ever New Zealander to reach four swimming finals at an Olympic Games (800m free, 400m free, 200m free, 4x 200m relay). She placed fourth in her favoured event, the 400m freestyle. We explored what it was like to stare at a black line for 4 hours a day and what motivates her to keep on going to get the job done. Don't miss this episode of deep diving into the heart and mind of NZ swimming's brightest star.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - http://oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
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