The Art of the Good Sub Orgasm: When you’ve earned your release
The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power DynamicsShow Notes
Have you ever thought about why some orgasms feel better than others? Today, we talk about those submissives who love to please Mistress and then earn a good sub orgasm.
Topics include: Why does it feel so good to beg for an orgasm? What’s the difference between a regular orgasm and a good sub orgasm? BDSM, power exchange and how Mistress flips the script on your regular masturbation routine. What does a Femdom use to make you earn your orgasm? - tasks, tease and delay, edging, flawless submission. What is the role of positive reinforcement in power exchange? Cock control versus JOI The surprise orgasmThe role of scheduled orgasms in chastity training.
We share stories about people who love to feel that rush of obedience and for some that obedience is almost more exciting than the orgasm! Only kidding, the orgasm still feels amazing!
We also talk about what we, as Femdoms, use to judge whether you’ve earned it. Above all, this episode gives you a peek into what we consider makes a good sub. Now remember, each Mistress is different, we’re simply talking about our own desires and expectations.
Does earning a “good sub” orgasm fire you up?Let us know!
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