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Update on “The Hand That Held Me”

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Show Notes

I want to share a quick update about the "Hand That Held Me" series.

Due to some recent developments, I’ve made the decision to postpone the release. I know many of you were expecting it, and I’m sorry for the change. These situations can be complex, and I want to make sure I handle the story the right way.

This also leaves an unexpected three-week gap in the schedule while I prepare the next series. I appreciate your patience as I work to queue up what’s coming next.

Thank you, as always, for listening and for trusting the work.

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