Show Notes
Sleep associations aren't the villain they've been made out to be. But here's the truth: the ones your baby can't recreate on their own at 2am? That's where things get complicated.
Sally and Bec break down exactly what sleep associations are, why some cause overnight chaos while others work in your favour, and how the four-month sleep regression changes everything. They also tackle a brilliant Sleep Detectives question from a twin mum navigating nap resistance and daylight savings, plus an early rising question about whether to anchor nap one to wake time or clock time.
What You'll Learn: • The difference between assisted and unassisted sleep associations (and why we've retired the word 'negative') • How the four-month sleep cycle change creates the overnight waking problem • Why self-settling is a real, teachable skill—and what it actually looks like in action • Why feeding right before bed might be closer to a sleep association than you think • How nap sleep and night sleep are controlled by different parts of the brain • Twin mum Sleep Detective: two naps at 16 months, daylight savings chaos, and when to drop to one • Early rising Q&A: why nap one must be anchored to clock time, not wake time
Chapters: 00:00 Intro 08:45 What sleep associations actually are 12:30 How the four-month sleep cycle change drives overnight wakings 15:30 Assisted vs unassisted sleep associations 19:15 When sleep associations become a problem 24:00 Self-settling: the teachable skill and what it looks like 31:00 Sleep training does not teach babies no one is coming 35:45 When you think you have no sleep association but you do 40:20 Sleep Detectives: twin mum, two naps, and daylight savings 47:25 Early rising Q&A: anchoring nap one to clock time 52:00 Wrap up and Nap Trapped on the Road
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