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U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463

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Show Notes

Today Shandy is joined by fellow podcasters and dating advice givers, Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham from the U Up? Podcast! They chat the most common themes they see in the questions they receive, whether or not dating today is *actually* worse (or if we're just talking about it more), and what it's like to date when you're famous! Watch on for two relationship podcasts' (sometimes very different!) perspectives on apps and modern romance.

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Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Jordana Abraham & Jared Freid of U Up? Podcast! 0:47 - What Are The Most Common Themes They See In Their Relationship Qs? 9:34 - Is Dating Today Actually Worse Or Are We Just Talking About It More? 11:51 - Number One Piece Of Dating Advice 21:43 - Dating When You’re Famous 25:22 - Leaving The House 31:57 - Advice They Give That They Struggle To Follow 39:06 - Would You Rather

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