The year of the sissy: How intentional feminization becomes self-care
The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power DynamicsShow Notes
Today’s episode explores a new way to think about New Year’s resolutions and your feminization or sissy training. We never want to ignore the sex and sluttiness but what if there’s ‘more’ available?
There’s a common myth that all sissy play (and a lot of feminization experiences) need to have lots of humiliation and submission. Oh sure, that IS often part of it (and a very fun aspect of sissy training) but does everything have to be about sex?
Sexual arousal and pleasure might be what draws you in but we are seeing something beyond the sexual humiliation and erotic power exchange.
Today we talk about intentionally choosing femininity as a way to decompress from all the pressures of the masculine stuff in your life. We want you to consider how creating a sanctuary of softness can be an antidote to the constant performance of masculine demands.
The focus usually is on the performative aspects of feminization - the dressing, the shopping, the makeup, the rituals and protocols. And make no mistake about it, we LOVE that stuff but some of the psychological benefits happen in long-term transformation that is not shown in things like sissy porn or Femdom erotica.
Are you ready for The Year of the Sissy? Let us know!
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