Show Notes
If you've ever said "no" to your toddler and watched them do it anyway — you're not failing. You're just missing one piece of information that changes everything. The developing brain under three cannot reliably process negation. "Don't throw" registers as "throw." "No hitting" registers as "hit." And the more you escalate, the more you reinforce the exact behavior you're trying to stop. In this episode, Erin breaks down why throwing, hitting, and grabbing are not three separate problem...
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