EP 70 // What an Overstimulated Mom Actually Needs From Her Spouse (And How to Ask Them for Help)

Does it feel like you’ve tried everything to stop your baby’s night wakings, but nothing seems to work? You’re exhausted, you’re second-guessing every decision, and you just want to know what to fix first. In today’s episode, I’m walking you through three places to start when your baby is waking frequently at night. We’ll talk about feeding and comfort, bedtime habits, and how to spot patterns in your baby’s schedule so you can stop guessing and feel more confident about your next step. If you’re ready for personalized support, book a Sleep Clarity Call at mamamatterstoo.com/call. We’ll look at your baby’s sleep together and create a plan that works for your family. Your baby matters, but you matter too, mama. ❤️ Book your sleep clarity call here: mamamatterstoo.com/call Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!): instagram.com/mama.matters.too

Feel like someone is always awake? If you’re feeding one twin, rocking the other, and wondering how you’ll ever get longer stretches of sleep, this episode is for you. We’re talking about how to sleep train twins with a manageable bedtime routine, a plan for night wakings and night feedings, and support that considers each baby’s needs. You’ll learn what to do when they wake each other up, how to approach overnight feeds, and why progress doesn’t have to look identical for both babies.

Do you love your baby but feel like you’ve lost yourself? If you’re overwhelmed, emotional, or constantly worrying, you may be wondering whether it’s postpartum hormones, anxiety, or exhaustion. In this episode, we talk about how hormonal changes and postpartum anxiety can overlap, the difference between baby blues and symptoms that deserve more support, and practical steps for talking to your healthcare provider. You don’t need to know exactly what’s wrong before asking for help. Your mental health matters, and seeking support doesn’t mean you’ve failed as a mom. Need someone to talk to? Call or text the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline at 1-833-852-6262 (1-833-TLC-MAMA) for free, confidential support, available 24/7 in the U.S. This is a support resource, not an emergency line. If broken nights are adding to your overwhelm, book a Sleep Clarity Call at https://mamamatterstoo.com/call for a personalized baby sleep plan. Sleep support can complement professional mental health care!

Is your baby waking every two hours, leaving you exhausted and wondering whether it’s hunger, their nap schedule, or how they fall asleep? In this episode, we walk through three things to check first: feeding and comfort, bedtime sleep habits, and your baby’s daily schedule and overnight routine. You’ll learn where to start, common mistakes to avoid, and one simple step to help you stop guessing at every wake-up. If you’ve tried everything and still don’t know what to change, this episode will help you find a clearer next step.

Do you ever feel like you’re doing so much for everyone else, but nobody sees how hard you’re working? Between feeding your baby, managing naps, working, and keeping your home running, motherhood can feel exhausting and unseen. In this episode, I’m joined by author, speaker, and mom Jenessa Wait for a conversation about how God sees you in this season, even when your days feel repetitive and you wonder if you’re moving forward. We talk about recognizing God’s work in everyday motherhood, knowing when to wait and when to take a step of faith, and making room for your gifts and dreams without adding more pressure to your plate. Jenessa also shares encouragement from her book, Moving with God, for the mom who feels stuck or wonders, “Is this all I’m doing with my life right now?” Mama, the work that goes unnoticed still matters. And you do, too. Connect with Jenessa: jenessawait.com instagram.com/jenessawait Preorder her book here Ready for a clear plan for your baby’s sleep so you can stop second-guessing every bedtime and night waking? Book your Sleep Clarity Call at mamamatterstoo.com/call.