Making Polyamory Work

Is this okay?

Making Polyamory Work

Show Notes

Libby invites Mia Schacter of Consent Wizardry to join her to answer two listener questions. The first one asks, what if I don't feel intense NRE with a new partner? Does that mean something or is it okay? The second asks, Is it okay for me to not want my partner to date monogamous people or is that something I need to learn to be okay with? --------------------------- Find Consent Wizardry on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/ on Substack: https://consentwizardry.substack.com/ on the web: https://consentwizardry.com/ ----------------------- Also! Libby has created a workbook based on the most popular episodes of the podcast — with simple practices and reflection questions so that you can apply this stuff to your life.

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