The Sparkle Project

How Toxic Positivity Is Making Motherhood Harder

The Sparkle Project

Show Notes

Toxic positivity is rampant in modern society - but the flavor that comes along with motherhood is particularly harmful. In this episode, Emily unpacks the real impact of toxic positivity in motherhood and why messages like “enjoy every moment” or “at least you have healthy kids” can actually leave moms feeling more isolated, guilty, and emotionally burned out. The episode explores how toxic positivity shows up in everyday parenting culture, why suppressing difficult emotions can harm moms’ e...

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