The Wellness Script

17. Learning to Stop: Vanessa Ogbonna on Chronic Illness, Identity & Life After Professional Football

The Wellness Script

Show Notes

Episode Description: This week on the Wellness Script podcast, we're joined by Vanessa Ogbonna - content creator, TV presenter, former semi-professional footballer, public health graduate, and one of the most refreshingly honest voices in the wellness space right now. Vanessa is known to many from winning The Traitors Ireland, but her story goes so much deeper than that. After getting Covid in January 2021 during pre-season, Vanessa began experiencing symptoms that would eventually lead to a diagnosis of lupus - an autoimmune condition - as well as sports-induced asthma. All while filming, playing football, and pushing through in true athlete fashion. Her body, eventually, had other ideas. In this conversation, we get into what it really looks like to navigate wellness with a chronic illness, why Vanessa draws such a clear distinction between fitness and wellness, and how losing her identity as a footballer forced a massive - and ongoing - reinvention. This one is packed with honesty, insight, and plenty of moments that will resonate whether or not you've ever kicked a ball in your life. In this episode, we cover: What wellness actually means to Vanessa right now - and why it changes with each season of life. Her lupus diagnosis, and how she pushed through symptoms for far too long The difference between fitness and wellness (and why that distinction matters) Identity loss after leaving professional sport, and the long road to acceptance Growing up as an athlete and performing for love vs. performing for joy What it means to fundraise and train for the Dublin City Half Marathon with a chronic illness Anti-inflammatory eating, gut health, alcohol, and why she keeps it practical - not perfect Representation in healthcare, women's health in Ireland, and why she chose public health Why community is now a core part of her wellness philosophy Her advice for anyone navigating health challenges, career pivots, or big life transitions

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