Show Notes
For decades, almost everything we knew about sexual desire and arousal was based on research done on men — and simply assumed to apply to women too.
In this conversation, Dr. Cindy Meston, professor of clinical psychology and director of the Female Sexual Psychophysiology Laboratory at the University of Texas at Austin, breaks down thirty years of research into how women's desire and arousal actually work, and why the male template got it wrong.
Why the science of women's desire is decades behind the science of men's
The surprising model that flips the usual order of desire and arousal
What an eight-year study found about desire through menopause — and who defied the trend
Why a woman's body and her mind don't always agree on when she's turned on
The unexpected 20-minute intervention that changed the research
This conversation is part of Sex in Menopause, a free masterclass with Naomi Watts featuring sexual health expert Dr. Somi Javaid, Dr. Cindy Meston, and real women navigating changing bodies and desire most of us were never prepared for. Watch it for free at sexinmenopause.com.
Right now there is only one trained menopause provider for every 32,000 women who need care. This episode is for anyone confused by their own changing desire, and anyone who wants the actual science instead of the myths.
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