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The Truth About Balding, Booze, And Being A Dad At 50 (Jason Fox)

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Show Notes

Jason 'Foxy' Fox joins James Smith, on his wife's birthday no less, for an unfiltered and very funny conversation that swaps the usual topics for a proper sit-down with the boys. A former UK Special Forces operator and the longest-serving member of the SAS: Who Dares Wins directing staff, Foxy opens up about becoming a dad again at 50 after seven years of IVF, missing his son's birth over a WhatsApp video call, and why newborn sleep deprivation hits harder than anything the military threw at him.

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He explains:

◼️ Why newborn sleep deprivation is worse than military exercises

◼️ What it's really like to be away working when your child is born

◼️ How Ultra 4 Charity makes ultra marathons accessible for everyone

Chapters:

00:00 Intro

01:30 Baldness, Hair Transplants and Finasteride

07:05 How Fatherhood Feels Different Second Time Around

08:08 James's Son Blocked From Entering the UK

09:22 Missing His Son's Birth Over WhatsApp

12:22 Older Parents and Seven Years of IVF

14:59 James's Adoption and the Stolen Cheque

17:22 Ibiza Chaos and Writing a Will

19:31 The Pregnancy Complication That Forced an Early Birth

21:37 James's Emergency C-Section Story

24:20 Special Forces vs Newborn Sleep Deprivation

25:10 The Sleep Coach That Actually Worked

28:11 Being Away Filming SAS: Who Dares Wins

30:10 Sam Burgess: Headlocks and Falling Off the Wagon

35:44 Is London Still Worth It?

39:08 Ultra 4 Charity: Running for Veterans

41:42 How Jiu-Jitsu Gives Veterans Purpose

42:27 Foxy's Muay Thai and BJJ Journey

45:08 Snapping His Leg on a 300ft Tower

48:25 Getting Caught by a 'White Belt'

50:14 Rolling With a GB Judo Black Belt

53:57 Why Strikers Scare James

55:43 The Shoplifter Who Sang for the Queen

58:00 Teaching Young Leaders About Mental Health

59:10 James Nearly Joined the Army

01:00:29 Has Britain's Attitude to the Military Changed?

01:02:15 Veteran Support and Military Respect

01:03:07 The ThruDark Story

01:07:37 The Blocked Urethra That Led to Sepsis

01:13:36 In Praise of NHS Emergency Care

01:14:54 A Bali Moped Crash and NHS Hallways

01:18:11 Foxy's Only Real Goal in Life

01:20:41 Adult Circumcision and Other Injuries Down There

01:22:11 The Schoolyard Punch and Gaps in Body Armour

01:23:57 MrBallen's Grenade Story

01:26:41 From an IED Blast to a UK High Street in 16 Hours

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