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Ross Edgley: How To Become DANGEROUSLY Self-Motivated

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Show Notes

Ross Edgley joins James Smith for a reunion years in the making. Ross is the ultramarathon sea swimmer who swam around Great Britain and then the whole coast of Iceland.

Ahead of his new book How To Hero, he opens up about losing his dad, waking up in hospital after failed swims, and being told doctors had never seen blood work like his on a living person. He also explains the brain science of why some people keep going when everything hurts and others tap out.

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He explains:

◼️ The part of your brain that decides whether you grit it out or quit

◼️ Why purpose has to outweigh pain if you want to finish hard things

◼️ How your reward system crashes when results don't show up

◼️ Why running on anger and self-talk burns out over long efforts

◼️ What Viking berserkers and Icelandic sagas teach us about heroism

Chapters:

00:00 Intro

01:41 Reunion and Ross's Biggest Night Out

02:24 How Becoming a Dad Changes Everything

06:50 Why People Aren't Having Kids Anymore

09:29 Does Family Switch Off Your Stress Response?

11:17 Loch Ness, Lake Trasimeno and Waking Up in Hospital

14:15 Swimming Through 12 Hours of Darkness

14:45 Why Iceland Produces So Many Physical Freaks

17:32 CrossFit Champions, Vikings and Eddie Hall

19:46 Water Polo: One of the Hardest Sports on Earth

23:57 Getting Crushed by Roger Gracie

27:41 The Brain Region Behind Grit or Quit

29:53 Everyone Is Scared Before They Compete

32:52 Arousal, Warm-Ups and Competing Your Own Way

33:43 Berserkers and the Viking Battle Frenzy

36:37 Nasal Breathing and Building CO2 Tolerance

39:21 When Training Past Your Body's Alarms Goes Wrong

42:23 James Freezing His Sperm Before Tour

43:03 Losing His Dad and the Myth of Sisyphus

48:03 Khabib, Grief and Finding a Reason to Get Up

50:37 How Jiu-Jitsu Gave James's Training Purpose

52:40 Swimming on the Spot for Four Hours in Iceland

55:43 Why Feedback Keeps People Going

58:39 Everyone Needs a Cheerleader

01:00:20 Why Ross Would Never Step Into a Cage

01:02:39 Goggins, Gratitude and Ross's Shadow Self

01:05:55 James Trains to Ruin Other People's Days

01:07:39 Are All High Achievers Psychopaths?

01:08:43 Thor, Odin and Why Heroes Aren't Pretty

01:10:43 Building Your Ego, Then Destroying It

01:12:05 A Million Followers and Feeling Nothing

01:13:42 The $50,000 Vegas Trip

01:15:48 Ross's Ayahuasca Experience in the Amazon

01:23:07 James's First Time on Ketamine

01:29:06 Hating Therapy and Low Testosterone

01:29:45 How Amazon Tribes Worked Out Ayahuasca

01:31:02 Icelandic Folklore and Living With Nature

01:32:19 James's Mushroom Trip and Duty to the Flame

01:39:29 How Psychedelics Led James to Fatherhood

01:42:58 When Psychedelics Go Wrong

01:45:43 Modafinil, Clenbuterol and Two Weeks in Barcelona

01:47:39 Fuelling the World's Longest Non-Stop River Swim

01:49:38 GLP-1s, Digestion and Losing Muscle at Sea

01:52:59 Getting Destroyed by a Competitive Eater

01:55:25 James's Boring Meal Prep Strategy

01:57:47 Hernias, Snapped MCLs and Getting Older

02:01:40 Stem Cells and Extending Your Career

02:05:18 Do Peptides Actually Work?

02:08:03 Should England Rugby Use Hype Videos?

02:12:49 Mike Tyson's Stare

02:14:03 Training With Volkanovsky and Tom Aspinall

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