Show Notes
In this episode, we share a more relaxed and personal conversation centered around the books that shaped our inner journeys. From psychedelic pioneers like Aldous Huxley and Stanislav Grof to spiritual wisdom from Ram Dass, Michael Singer, and Alan Watts, we reflect on the texts that helped expand our minds, deepen our understanding of surrender, and inspire us to live more authentically.
We touch on the impact of The Doors of Perception, The Untethered Soul, The Surrender Experiment, Be Here Now, The Psychedelic Explorer’s Guide, and many more. This is part book list, part storytelling, and part philosophical wander—perfect for anyone looking to deepen their path of personal growth, healing, or curiosity around consciousness.
📚 Books Mentioned in This Episode The Psychedelic Explorer’s Guide by James Fadiman
Be Here Now by Ram Dass
The Doors of Perception by Aldous Huxley
The Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer
The Surrender Experiment by Michael A. Singer
LSD: My Problem Child by Albert Hofmann
The Holotropic Mind by Stanislav Grof
The Way of Zen by Alan Watts
The Book: On the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are by Alan Watts
Breaking Open the Head by Daniel Pinchbeck
Waking Up by Sam Harris
The Master and His Emissary by Iain McGilchrist
How to Change Your Mind by Michael Pollan
The Perennial Philosophy by Aldous Huxley
The Path Is Everywhere by Matt Licata
The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk
In an Unspoken Voice by Peter A. Levine
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