Not For Everyone

127. Not for Catch-Ups + How to Handle Friendship When You’re At Capacity

Not For Everyone

Show Notes

Go to ⁠https://zocdoc.com/notforeveryone ⁠to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. __ Kooks, do you ever find yourself overwhelmed by a missed call from a long-distance friend? Or inundated with requests for in-person hangs? Jess and Caroline talk through feeling crazy for complaining about friendship, even though the social overwhelm is STRONG right now. J offers some tips to a friend who called in to the pod about these very problems, and guides C through her own similar issues. Plus, the two discuss a new skincare routine, boundaries in friendship, Sherpa guides, and of course, the fact that Hot Not Bothered Summer is back next week! Get your notebook ready…there’s some hot tips in this episode to help you feel sane.

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