Show Notes
In this episode, we unpack the raw reality of what happens when parents ignore their own warning signs and run on completely empty. Sometimes, our over-the-top reactions are rarely about our kids' behaviour, but a reflection of the heavy, invisible backpacks we are carrying ourselves.
Tune in to discover how to navigate "mum guilt", how to find micro-moments of relief and the one five-second question that can completely transform your parenting dynamic.
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